This is Life

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The title today is this is life. Now, what is life? Life is a concept of living. Okay. Cool. This blog entry is about what struggles we may have with family, friends, or most of the time even Boyfriends/Girlfriends. Now ladies, do Not be like "Ha! I was right about this topic!" Also guys, just because they are snarky does NOT mean you get to be snarky right back. Though, ladies, we do have to admit that you have your moments. Guys, you have your moments too. The thing about life is it will and could give you lemons. When life gives you lemons, make a lemon cake and leave people wondering how the heck you made the cake. My first scenario for you is family. Imagine that your family got chosen to play the instruments, but only you and your sister. You play the flute and your sister plays the "drums". The only problem is you play really well and your sister only knows a simple one two beat. she makes this so hard to keep on beat and hear the piano. What do you do? What you do is you patiently try to help her. but she is getting mad. well that is when you say "I offered to help and you are not taking it. Good luck learning." Then you leave the area she is in. Now, for friends. This scenario can get tricky. You are hanging with your friends right? Then, all of a sudden a cute boy that your best friend likes walks up to you and asks for your Snap Chat. Now what are you supposed to do? Leave him standing there looking like an idiot? NO! You decide to give him your Snap Chat, or any means of communication that you have at the time and he walks away happy. Now your friend is like really mad at you for giving him your snap or whatever and she storms off. What you can do is let  her calm down before talking to her or you just run after her and hope you don't ruin the relationship that you two have. So you decide to let her chill and then go and find her talking to the guy that you like. It is not fun to see this so you storm away find the guy she likes and officially start dating him right in front of her eyes. You realize what you just did and boy oh boy did you just ruin your relationship. What you should have done in this situation is you should have told the boy on the spot that you just wanted to be friends and nothing more. That would have gone over a lot better. The last scenario is boyfriends or girlfriends. In this case it will be a girlfriend. So, here we are sitting on the picnic blanket or whatever and you just get girls keep coming up to you. Finally I get tired of it and get up and leave. So you just sit there thinking of what you could have possibly done. Finally, you come after me and we talk. I tell you what i thought got really annoying and you sit there and finally blow up at me. "I was not flirting with other girls!" you yell. SO i get up and say that we are finished. What the alternative could have been could be understanding and appreciative that I stood by your side, or you could have just told them to leave you alone and that you were a taken man. All of these are struggles of everyday life. You can not just run and hide in your closet because something scares you. You have to confront it and be like you are not going to control my life or day. It is your job to choose to turn some one away or even make a bad choice. Every choice has a consequence good or bad. It just depends on what you do with it.

Mcarthy

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