What to do....
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Today's title is what to do. What to do when you ask? This is the title of what to do when someone treats you like trash or if someone judges you before they even get to know you. Well Mcarthy, what do you do? Leave it alone and hope someone comes through for you? The answer to both of those questions is one, be yourself, and two, don't let what people say bother you. The way that you treat others that treat you like trash is you treat them better and with more respect. If you ever come across someone that treats you badly it is probably because they are going through a rough time or they see something in you that they see in themselves. If you treat that person better than they treat you than you would make them look bad in the end. You do have to realize that others treat you how they feel inside. The people that treat me badly feel my mistakes I made were disgusting and not right. The other thing you could do is tell them kiss your butt and they aren't worth your time. They AREN'T worth your time because they take advantage of your feelings and they take advantage of your friend space. You have to be the bigger person and keeping your distance. How can you keep your distance if you have same classes with them or if you are friends with them? You can be nice to them yes, but if they really are your friend, they would not treat you the way I am talking about. If they treat you like a thought then you either need to cut them out of the picture or find a way to tell them you feel hurt by the way they are treating you. People should not treat you like a thought, trash, or like they know you before they know you. The way you tell them that you do not like the way they treat you is you say, "Please stop treating me like you know me. This is not how I like to be treated." That should help with your problem. If they keep treating you like this tell them that you want to keep being friends but from a distance. Keep fighting and being yourself. Don't let what others say define you.
Mcarthy
Today's title is what to do. What to do when you ask? This is the title of what to do when someone treats you like trash or if someone judges you before they even get to know you. Well Mcarthy, what do you do? Leave it alone and hope someone comes through for you? The answer to both of those questions is one, be yourself, and two, don't let what people say bother you. The way that you treat others that treat you like trash is you treat them better and with more respect. If you ever come across someone that treats you badly it is probably because they are going through a rough time or they see something in you that they see in themselves. If you treat that person better than they treat you than you would make them look bad in the end. You do have to realize that others treat you how they feel inside. The people that treat me badly feel my mistakes I made were disgusting and not right. The other thing you could do is tell them kiss your butt and they aren't worth your time. They AREN'T worth your time because they take advantage of your feelings and they take advantage of your friend space. You have to be the bigger person and keeping your distance. How can you keep your distance if you have same classes with them or if you are friends with them? You can be nice to them yes, but if they really are your friend, they would not treat you the way I am talking about. If they treat you like a thought then you either need to cut them out of the picture or find a way to tell them you feel hurt by the way they are treating you. People should not treat you like a thought, trash, or like they know you before they know you. The way you tell them that you do not like the way they treat you is you say, "Please stop treating me like you know me. This is not how I like to be treated." That should help with your problem. If they keep treating you like this tell them that you want to keep being friends but from a distance. Keep fighting and being yourself. Don't let what others say define you.
Mcarthy
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