Why is Being You so IMPORTANT?

      Hey Y'all!!! Today I am talking about why being you is so important. Hmmmmm..... Why is being who you are so important? Well, one if you are not who you are than who are you? Two, how are people supposed to get to know you and know if they like you? Those are really good questions that even I have trouble answering. The answer to the first question of who are you is you are acting like a fake person and you are hoping that no one notices. Guess what? I know that you are faking it. The answer to the second one is people won't know if they like the real you or if they like they fake you. The hiding under the mask hurts not only you, it hurts your family. Being who you are is important because you have to know who you are to be that person. It is also important because you get to show that you are better than any one who asks like you did. If you were not who you are than you are playing chameleon. Playing chameleon is basically you blending in with who you are hanging out with just so you can fit in with the crowd. Standing out is not as bad as what you think. When you stand out it means that you are better than the people that you are around and that you have respect for yourself and others around you. The way you present yourself is the way you present your family and friends. The way your friends present themselves is the way that they present their families. If you let others control your decisions and your life you will never learn to grow in respect and beauty. The fact that they can not respect others shows that they have no respect for themselves. You should take control of the decisions you make because you do not want to end up the same way that they ended up. This applies to me because it is hard for me to show people who I am. I am afraid that they would judge me for who I am.

Thank you guys so much for letting me rant to you. If you ever want to know how I am doing or more of what my life is like please comment and I will definitely do so.

Mcarthy

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